In Praise of the Bitch
How Difficult Women Are Their Own Kind of Power Fantasy
She glares angrily into the camera, threatens to shatter comic book panels, makes your controller quake with her fury. She condemns the sins, real or perceived, of the beloved protagonist, and you, you, for liking them. For colluding with them through your sympathy and fandom. She is The Bitch; it’s not that everyone loves to hate her, they simply hate.
The Bitch performs a narrative function in just about every kind of modern story. She’s the cruel interloper who flatteringly reflects the hero in their foil. She provides tension and conflict, a challenge to be overcome by the protagonist, and she is so very often a she; a projection of our anxieties about women’s power, about women who don’t comply. In most stories, everything flows in one direction from the wake of the protagonist’s quest. The Bitch is the eddy, the loose end that dares to remind the reader that there are other agendas in this world, that not everything bows to the Chosen One’s mission.
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Queen Anora MacTir, a significant NPC in Dragon Age: Origins, is a prime example of someone maligned as a “Bitch” whose motivations could stand to be better understood by players and fans. At a crucial moment near the game’s climax, she betrays you to the tyrant you seek to overthrow—who happens to be her father. This, after rescuing her from imprisonment at the hands of one of his lieutenants.
How did some fans of the game respond?
“Die Anora!”; “Suck my ass, Anora”; fanart of her being punched; “You’re a bad queen and you nearly left me to die. But you know…I can think of a few ways for you to make it up to me,” in reply to erotic fanart; the “Anora is a Bitch!” stamp on DeviantArt, colourfully described by its creator thusly: “I hate Anora! She is a lying bitch!” A flood of comments agree: “You fucking bitch! Chantry cunt!”
I should point out that Anora has a small but robust fan base, of course, some of whom are quite hortatory in their praise of the politicking queen. But the hatred remains overpowering, especially in light of the fandom given to the anti-heroics of Teyrn Loghain, Queen Anora’s father, who truly was a tyrant. Anora betrays your character as part of a larger chess game she’s playing to unseat her murderous father, and ultimately provides you with the support you need to win over the nobility in that effort. She just wants her title of Queen to be more than ceremonial. But why is this ambition, in a game that bleeds with it from all sides, held as so unseemly in Anora?
Once her filial sympathy for her murderous father fades, she bides her time and chooses her moment with care. That moment just happens to be the one where she crosses the player’s path. In truth, she is a parallel player-character with goals of her own, the hero of a separate but intersecting story. While you slay darkspawn in the wilds of Ferelden, she plays a cloak and dagger game, but you both have the same ultimate goal: saving the country from the egos of lesser men and the fires of greater archdemons. In addition, Anora is set apart by her self-confidence. She is unabashed in her claim to the throne; she believes herself the most competent ruler-in-waiting. It’s hard to argue when the only competition is a father who makes deals with slavers and a young man who literally whines about being offered the throne; Anora knows she’s competent and doesn’t apologise for what she regards as an unassailable fact. She is not a reluctant leader, she simply leads.
It all amounts to a smouldering lack of compliance that burns into a flame of resistance. She suddenly yanks away the player’s power fantasy and reminds them of opposing agendas that can’t be solved by a boss fight.
More than anything else, Anora is a consummate politician, and the game bears out her confidence. If she rules as queen, the epilogue makes clear that her rulership is just, prudent, and skilled. A woman who knows she is competent and who acts, at times ruthlessly, to achieve the position she deserves. She’s so well-written she doesn’t act like an NPC but the protagonist of her own story—which, really, is how we all see ourselves. To do so while female, however, is to court the title of “Bitch.”
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